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Just a Second...

6/2/2013

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We have a website.  Last year, we didn't.  Last month, we didn't.  Last week, we didn't.  Yesterday, we didn't.  As a matter of fact, a minute ago, we didn't.  And now, we do.

We are constantly amazed at how lives change, in seconds.  Well, to be more clear - in just one second.

One of our guides was speaking with a gentleman about the woman he was dating.  She said to him, "Isn't it amazing? A month ago, you didn't even know she existed - and now, you are picturing your future together!"

His answer was quite profound.  He said, "From where I stood, it took years, but the truth is, it only took one second.  Everything does."  He continued, "When you think about it, one second I didn't know her, one second I did.   One second a person is sick, the next second they are healthy.  One second you're a couple, the next second your a family of 3."

Things seem like they take hours, days, weeks, months or even years.  We may be actively working toward something for quite some time, but when you get right down to it, everything happens in just one second.

A person starts dating when they are 20, dates for years, completely devoted to the process but, in truth, one second they don't know their b'shert - and then the next second, they do.  One second they are unsure, the next second they know.  One second they are single, the next they are engaged.  And under the chuppah, in a second, they are now married.  And their life is forever changed.  In an instant.  And most of the time, they never saw it coming.

So, my friends, pray, network, promote your product and date smart.  Know that your spouse is looking for you as hard as you are looking for your spouse.  And you'll find each other - in just a second. 

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