There is a new book out called, "If Someone Says You Complete Me, Run!". I don't think people actually mean this when they say it, but that is WAY too much power for anyone to have over anyone else.
One of the most popular Jewish books on relationships is called "Two Halves of a Whole".
So, which one of these is the Torah perspective?
Both are.
You have to be whole for yourself before you can share yourself with anyone else.
Also, you shouldn't be with someone who doesn't make you feel "fuller" or "completer" when you are with them.
I like to say it this way:
Two halves of a whole can still be whole unto themselves. It is like this:
Coffee is good by itself. Milk is good by itself. Coffee with milk is just better. They each make each other better as they are now a completed, perfected unit.
If you need help strengthening your coffee (your self esteem in dating), skimming your milk (filtering through your list of wants for a mate) or just trying to find your person, make an appointment for your free consultation at www.BetterShidduchim.com
One of the most popular Jewish books on relationships is called "Two Halves of a Whole".
So, which one of these is the Torah perspective?
Both are.
You have to be whole for yourself before you can share yourself with anyone else.
Also, you shouldn't be with someone who doesn't make you feel "fuller" or "completer" when you are with them.
I like to say it this way:
Two halves of a whole can still be whole unto themselves. It is like this:
Coffee is good by itself. Milk is good by itself. Coffee with milk is just better. They each make each other better as they are now a completed, perfected unit.
If you need help strengthening your coffee (your self esteem in dating), skimming your milk (filtering through your list of wants for a mate) or just trying to find your person, make an appointment for your free consultation at www.BetterShidduchim.com
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