If someone has been trying to make the time to make a specific change (work more, exercise more, learn more, etc...) for more than a few weeks and hasn't actually started doing something (besides thinking or planning) toward that end, they aren't going to start doing it when they get married.
The day doesn't get longer when you share it with someone and start a family.
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