Better Shidduchim is a service focused on helping you better understand who you are and the type of person you really need, considering your personal qualities, goals, experiences and desires.
The best preparation for getting into shidduchim is to know your product. That’s you. And what kind of spouse you are looking for. Your journey with Better Shidduchim will help you...
- identify where you can be more flexible in your dating choices, and where you should hold firm
- figure out how to verbalize what you have to offer and what you are looking for in a mate
- write a clear, targeted profile likely to attract the right people
- better market yourself to shadchanim and network with others who may know your future spouse
- learn how to set guidelines for your dealings with matchmakers and dates
- develop your own personalized list of questions to ask references, to avoid unnecessary dates (e.g., people outside of your "pool of eligibles")
- learn to see things from other people's points of view - including your future spouse's
- determine if you can benefit from a dating coach
- relax and enjoy your time on a date without any fear of being "swept away" by looks, accomplishments, similarities, or chemistry
- evaluate your experience and compatibility after a date
- more comfortably move through the dating process into engagement and a happy, healthy marriage
